
What should I do with all of my stuff when I downsize?
Ask Kathe: What should I do with all of my stuff when I downsize?
It’s one of the most common questions I’m asked—and one of the most daunting parts of right-sizing. After a lifetime of accumulating furniture, keepsakes, and “just in case” items, facing it all at once can feel overwhelming. But if you’re preparing for a move that better suits your current lifestyle, there is a thoughtful and manageable way to begin.
Start by reframing the challenge. This isn’t just about what to do with everything you own—it’s about identifying what truly supports the way you live now, and what you want to bring with you into your next chapter. If you already know where you’re going, let the new space guide your decisions. Consider what will realistically fit and function well. From there, begin sorting:
- Keep what you use regularly and still enjoy.
- Pass down heirlooms and meaningful items to family or friends.
- Donate pieces that are still useful but no longer serve you.
- Sell furniture, art, or collections with market value.
- Discard what is broken, outdated, or no longer needed.
Tackle one area at a time—starting with spaces that carry less emotional weight, like the garage or basement. And allow yourself enough time; this is a process, not a weekend project.
There are also professionals who can help—from organizers and estate sale managers to consignment shops and charitable organizations. The goal isn’t to rush through it, but to thoughtfully edit down to what matters most.
Many of my clients tell me they feel lighter once they’ve let go of the excess. Downsizing, when done intentionally, can be freeing—not just physically, but emotionally.
If a move is on your horizon, I’m here to help you navigate it—from planning and preparation to finding the right place to land next.
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